Shelve Your Shock

Love Barnabas Piper’s writing.

You know what the hardest response to see and hear is when I tell someone something personal or sensitive is? It’s not anger. I can see that coming a mile away and change course. It’s not judgment; those people are easy to ignore. It’s not even apathy, though that can sting, because apathy leads to nothing.

The most painful response is shock.

I tell someone a story of some really bad decisions I made in the past and they gasp and say “are you serious?” I explain a sin I’m struggling with and they stare at me, mouth agape. I’m honest about how hard marriage is and the bumpy road my wife and I are going down and they lean back and blow hard through pursed lips in that overwhelmed way. These are the responses I fear most. They are the ones that make me feel like and idiot, a six-inch tall moron.

Christian Freedom

John Piper with a great analogy about what Christian freedom looks like.

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

John 8:36

Own Your Process: Ending Agile Guilt

Good thoughts on the agile process.

What we’ve ended up with is something Agile-y. Agile-ish. Sort of, kind of Agile. Not agile-with-a-capital-A Agile, but you know, mostly Agile. Sometimes more waterfall-y than Agile, depending on the project and customer.

So, let go of the guilt. Own your process. Is it working for your client and your project? Are you meeting your goals? Great. If not, tweak it. Try something new. Find a process that works. Repeat it, test it, refine it.